We are continuously using these words so carelessly and so casually
Sitting in our comfortable homes, we talk of courage when we face extremely difficult times at work. We talk of determination when we go to our exercise class thrice a week. We talk of hope when we pray for our children to get into the best colleges.
But Courage, Determination and Hope take on a new meaning, transcends into a new level when I see my house help battle her own very war of life.
An unemployed husband who lost his leg in an accident. A child born without an arm. It is an exhaustive battle each day to cater to their physical, mental and financial needs each day.
But she defines it all.
Courage- for coming to work each day smiling and teaching me a thing or two about how to repair my minor things at home.
Determination- to educate her children
Hope- to just settle her children off comfortably
No lofty aims. No grand illusions. Survival. Education. Settlement.
I don’t think she is even thinking beyond 2 years from now. She does not have the luxury to do so.
I don’t think she is even thinking how will she manage her husband for years from now. She does not have the time to focus on it now.
Today. Education
Tomorrow. A Job.
Courage. Determination. Hope
With a smile. For anyone who walks into my door. Anytime. Every time.
Preeta Chag 